Cryptic crossword No 525

Across

1. Xe is one option, originally adopted by non-binary lecturer and revolutionary thinker (5,3)
2. A selection of goodies from Stonewall (6)
3. During Lil Nas X's European tour, a confused homophobe finally gets it? (6,9)
4. Erect shafts taken orally (5)
5. Drag queen abandons wig for leather cap? (3)
6. Two women joined by their vow - but now there's only one? (5)
7. Signal engineer copes with her son coming out (3-4)
8. Big, hairy guy lacks the energy to achieve a great deal (7)
9. Clear principles of equality mean protecting trans youth! (5)
10. She fell for a cryptographic wiretapper? Oh, like in that spy drama! (3)
11. Interpret clue for "power bottom" (5)
12. Anger (and activism!) over rolling back of rights inspired people to rise up - with the help of this? (6,9)
13. Some of Panthera's furry friends can be found in the pound (6)
14. Humiliating pants written about Pride, perhaps (8)

Down

1. Way into an aromantic person's heart? Elocution, primarily - speak like Yoda, you must? (10)
2. "Stuck-up, asexual bastard" - Panthera's flattered (6)
3. Musical set in Norwich Airport (4)
4. Champion in bed? The opposite - husband's past it (6)
5. Heartily asserted "love is love" (4)
6. Hit parade organizers might keep their paperwork in this (3,4)
7. In essence, humanist bel esprit's written up a recipe for peace and harmony (7)
8. Bisexual setter picked up tips from like-minded enthusiasts regarding clear writing (7)
9. She'll participate in a Pride demo, as a lesbian, but only occasionally in a riot (7)
10. Secure with genderfluid identity at last - it's empowering! (4,6)
11. Church invaded by topless gay men on seriously strong stuff! (7)
12. Snubbed pilot, hung up on a Sapphic character, might go island-hopping in this (3,4)
13. Suffering from bleeding hearts after the introduction of "progress" flags? (6)
14. Pansexual Romeo verges on Italophilia, name-dropping fine white marble (6)
15. Try to come up with a spiritual sound for one of Wendy Carlos's instruments? (4)
16. Reviewing some intersex allosomes shows they can be arranged in ways other than an XY pair! (4)